There is more than one sort of sexual abuser.... there are those out there who never do anything to HARM a child in the sense of making the child believe he was harmed...but are never the less guilty in the eyes of the law because they have violated cultural and moral norms... instead of co-ercion and threats, they use bribery and exploit natural desires all children have towards their own sexuality. I believe MJ is one of these... he can honestly believe that he has NEVER harmed a child and be very convincing about it... and most of the children would not come forward because of not realizing they had been molested... until they learn how society classifies it...and then they might not come forwards because they would no be ashamed for enjoying it, or afraid of being labelled because of it, or still have loyalties to MJ...perhaps other reasons.
Our society does not care if a child enjoys sex or not, we have determined that until a certain age, they are not capable of determining things like that for themselves... this age varies wildly from state to state. in some states it can be as low as 12, here in florida it is 16 as long as the other is under 24... which seems a bit arbitrary.
at one time 13 was considered an adult in most cultures, especially since a great many died before age 40. however, we must consider that no stable culture of any duration has ever allowed sex for the sake of pleasure to be permitted... some are pushing that way now..but it is my suspicions this will never be allowed by the majority... perhaps rightly so, the sexual revolution has been a basic failure... we need to learn to fix our emotions first... just as we need to learn to drive a car before we get behind the wheel in real traffic.... too many are sexually driving without proper instruction and causing all sorts of problems.